Hi! First of all, I’d you’re reading this - hi and thank you!

To start, I’ll share a little about myself and my interests. I’m 26 and live in LA. I work part time and am in school full time for my second degree. I love the outdoors and being active. Some of my favorite hobbies include hiking, camping, running, drawing, and collecting vinyls. While I have an adventurous side, you can often find me at home cuddling with my cat too. As for appearance, I am white, have red hair, am on the shorter side and have a thick / curvy yet athletic build.

What I’m looking for: finding a connection with someone. I’d love to start out by going on some dates, and seeing if there’s a connection and friendship there. The reason I am posting on here is that I’ve always wanted to explore sub/Dom and BDSM dynamics. While dating I’ve found it tough to find someone interested in the same things as I am not only in terms of life / goals but in the bedroom as well. For BDSM dynamics, I tend to prefer to keep that in the bedroom. However, I would be open to discussing certain dynamics outside of the bedroom too in terms of supporting each other in reaching our goals, maintaining healthy habits, etc. The juxtaposition between a Dom’s personality outside vs inside the bedroom (and in private) is soo attractive to me. I also find deep communication and helping one another reach goals / better ourselves super hot and romantic. Of course all of this depends on the person & what we are each comfortable with. I am open to trying new things, however I am pretty new and inexperienced with BDSM. I’ve never really had a partner I’ve trusted or felt comfortable enough with to explore. Lastly, I find it extremely important to mention that communication and respecting boundaries are of the utmost importance to me and I’d expect the same from you.

What I’m looking for in a person: ideally someone around my age (mid 20s into mid 30s-ish). I don’t really have a physical type and am open to all races (although being tall or being large down there definitely won’t be turned away lol…). Similar interests would be nice too. Personality, friendship, humor and establishing trust are the most important to me! Also important to note - I am bi and open to anyone messaging me.

Of course if there’s not a connection there/ things end up being more casual, I am open to that too. We can’t force anything, but someone looking for something recurring and on the more serious / dating side of things would be preferred.

Anyways, that’s enough from me! If any of this caught your attention, my DMs are open :)