Not a fan of dating apps, so I’m giving Reddit a try—let’s see how this goes!

Hi there! I’ve been happily single for the past two years, taking time to focus on myself and enjoy my independence. But lately, I’ve been feeling a pull toward something more—a deeper connection, someone to share life’s ups and downs with. I miss having my person—someone I can lean on and who can lean on me in return.

I crave the kind of intimacy that makes the mundane moments meaningful: holding hands during a walk, sharing inside jokes, or stealing glances across the table at dinner. I miss the comfort of having someone to come home to, to talk about the day, to just be with. Whether it’s an adventurous date exploring a new restaurant or a quiet evening wrapped in blankets watching a favorite movie, life feels so much richer when it’s shared with someone special. And because it’s that season, I find myself longing for the warmth of love—like holding hands while strolling through a winter wonderland of Christmas lights.

A little about me: I’m a highly educated professional with a graduate degree and a career in the medical field. I’ve worked hard to build a stable, fulfilling life and am proud of my independence—but I also value traditional relationship dynamics.

On the physical side, I’ve been told I’m beautiful and have a sultry, feminine charm. I’m petite (5’3”) with a curvy figure (140 lbs), a light medium complexion, long black hair, and warm brown eyes.

About you: I’m drawn to men who are confident, ambitious, and know how to take care of themselves. You should exude masculine energy while also being kind, respectful, and emotionally intelligent. Physically, I’m attracted to tall (ideally 5’10” or taller), fit men who prioritize their health and fitness. Whether it’s through hitting the gym, staying active, or simply living a balanced lifestyle, I admire someone who values self-care.

You’re someone who is equally passionate about your career and personal growth but still makes time to enjoy life—whether that’s through traveling, trying new restaurants, or savoring a quiet night at home. If you can bring a mix of charm, intellect, and a great smile to the table, even better. Bonus points if you enjoy deep conversations, value connection, and aren’t afraid to show a little romance.

If any of this resonates, send me a message! Thoughtful, respectful messages will catch my attention :)