Hello Wonderful women of reddit, This might be a long one but I'm looking for something very specific so I have to spell it out completely.

I'm in an ENM/Poly relationship and we just truly opened up after having the last 11 months pretty damn exclusive. Its been great and amazing and I will be marrying this women because she truly brings me an immense amount of joy. We have an amazing sex life and she's extremely hot and smart and all around amazing.

So to get all that out of the way what I'm looking for is a new friend that I can share some of my free time with. Maybe once per week, maybe once every other week. All depending on our schedules. Someone cool to talk to and chat about life, send memes to, get dinner, go on hikes or bike rides and watch movies with. A true friend in every sense of the word. A friend that is also down to make out and get a little nasty here and there. I really like weirdos. Hot weirdos. I'm hot and I'm a weirdo so it only makes sense. Boundaries and communication are super important. Consent is super hot and sexy. I will never do anything without making sure it's cool 1st.

I get tested frequently and would hope the same. And I'm not going to do anything without protection. Only issue on my end is we currently have a roommate so unfortunately can not host too often unless you trying to have fun with me and my partner both which I mean can be arranged if you dig her but that also depends on if that's even something any of us would want because this is really more about me and who ever you are lol.

But a little about me... Caribbean boy from Atlanta, born and raised but been in LA for about 7 years now and I absolutely love it here, but still a true southern gentleman . Leftist. Night Owl. I'm an artist who works in the arts, love sketching random things. Big time cyclist who'd rather bike across town than drive my car, especially if I know there's going to be parking issues like in Koreatown but hey it's a great way to stay in shape. I collect vinyls and have a crazy bomb collection of classic rock and r&b from the 70's with a lot of others in the mix. Cat daddy to a handsome little grey boy named Fendi. Excellent cook and I love eating and discovering new foods though I will admit I've cut a lot of meat out of my diet and mostly eat mushrooms and tofu or fish but occasionally splurge on carnitas when I need my fix. Super good with my hands, I can build any IKEA furniture within mins without a manual (may need a manual though). 420 and mushroom friendly, kink friendly too but that's something we can talk about when we need to talk about it. Oh yea im 6'3" and around 190 lbs right now so I'm all slim and lean and all that jazz. Im excellent at eating pussy, this isnt something Im just saying this is something I know and have been told on countless occasions. After care is something very important. Im here to cuddle and make sure you're all good and shit (I'm great at cuddling too). I like being treated to a night out sometimes too then we can go back to yours and you can treat me like the little Gemini slut I am lol.

I like women who are attractive and fun. If you're tall let's play some basketball and see who can dunk on who. I like slim to thick ladies. I don't care about your color or your height but no one too much younger or too much older (maybe no one under 24 and no one older 48 though age range can change based on connection and I'm open to exploring all possible connections). I love a nice booty but who doesn't. Really just want to meet someone who's cool and smart and weird and goofy. Someone who doesn't take shit too serious but still wants to have a bomb time but also someone who understands that this is a casual situation regardless of it being short or long term and someone who also understands my partner will know everything im doing because we have a great relationship where we communicate about everything. 0 Which is very important in a dynamic like this. So if you didn't get bored with my post and like the things I said in this, check out my post history to see some pictures of me somewhere in there. If you like what you see shoot me a DM or a chat and let's see if we like one another and want to hang out.