I've been playing on reddit on and off for years and this time around I'm working on being a little more clear in my intentions. i'm looking for bright, engaging women who enjoy casual play that's as conscious and communicative as it is hot and satisfying. I am not available, emotionally or otherwise, for anything beyond a friendship, and that won't change any time soon, but I would hope to feel connected on some level beyond "u up?" every few weeks. Anyway, it starts with a conversation on DM, so don't be shy if you want to know more - I am quite chill, it's not my first rodeo by a long shot, and I try not to put much weight on every single interaction to work out so temperature checks are welcome.

5'10" 175, lean, strong, flexible. blue eyes, a shaved, full head of hair, some line art tattoos, thick bwc well represented in post history. Very 420-friendly. I don't drink or smoke tobacco but don't care if you do (within the boundaries of soberish consent), and I do the occasional psychedelic.

I'm only seeking women (afab but much love and respect to all), and I am only seeking to communicate with women. Dudebros, I don't want to date anyone who needs her partner to speak for her, and I definitely don't want to plow your wife while you narrate. Oh, afab enbies, don't be shy (and if you have no idea what that means, i'm probably not the person who should explain it.)

I don't have a type per se. While I tend to date similarly fit women, I am also a fan of the Rubenesque and zaftig, and an active lifestyle is more important than a dress size. Under 30 might be a challenge connection-wise but generally I'm never too aware of my partner's age beyond how it impacts cultural references. Whatever your age, I don't mind if you're inexperienced with this kind of thing, in fact it can be super hot to guide, but please feel comfortable saying so and generally being yourself. I'm a person-centered, trauma-informed social worker - as spaces go, I'm a fairly safe one.

I'll be up tonight taking verification pics and DMing (and edging, let's face it), so I hope you'll say hello, but there's no real rush to get to know one another unless you absolutely need to touch and be touched tonight, in which case.... maybe? Try me.