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31 [M4F] #LongBeach - 6’ Thoughtful, Sensual, Tantric, Primal BBC Dom Open to Fun New Connections with Vivacious, Adventurous Young Women
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givingdee is a male age 31 looking for a female in Long Beach, CA
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tl; dr*: Sex is my one true art, but I create many things, from raps to apps. I do everything in pursuit of liberation: liberation of the body, of the mind, of ideas, of creation, liberation to explore our desires, liberation from oppression, from taboo and stigma, from masters, from gatekeepers, from fear. To lay with me is to open a portal into limitless sexual bliss, and begin to comprehend how such lack of limit should apply to all your life. Your body will rejoice at the way I touch you. Reach out or respond if you feel open to sharing a pleasure journey with the goal of reaching whole new levels of satisfaction.

long form: hi there dear. Please take a moment to read this message and allow me to properly introduce myself.

I'm a mentally vibrant, physically capable, emotionally stable co-op founder based in West LA. I was born in ‘92, a libra. I graduated from Caltech where i played basketball and studied mechanical engineering, economics and computer science.

i love exchanging knowledge and understanding that makes us more free and empowered as beings. yes sexual knowledge but also just worldly knowledge of how we come together as people to get the most out of life without compromising who we are. you can talk to me about what you feel like other people dont want to hear about or dont care about. i provide a safe, non judgmental space for you to be yourself, explore and grow.

that being said, im a monster 👹. to be fair, im just open to consistent, connective and conscious fun together with clearly laid out expectations and boundaries. it's just that such fun just tends to get rather intense with me.

please read this description to explain. SCROLL DOWN TO BOTTOM FOR QUESTION AND ANSWER BASED SUMMARY.

I'm always open to gorgeous, vibrant, lovely, energetic new partners like you to play with in an ethically non monogamous fashion.

some refer to exploring non-monogamy, fetishes, kinks and other sexual desires without the emotional baggage of traditional monogamous romantic relationships as “the lifestyle”, though other find that term outdated. by whatever name, it’s a journey i embarked on many years ago, with minimized drama, and have helped bring newcomers in as well, so even if you're not in the lifestyle yet and you're just curious, let me be your introduction; i'm happy to be.

my approach to sex is respectful and confident; i'm a service top and sensual dom, which to me means i want to read your body and please it the way i know how. your pleasure cums first, all puns intended. I don't need rest in between, and I know just how to stroke your "spot" in any position. But with foreplay i'd look to make sure you finished before we started.

And while I seek sensuality and put my partner's pleasure first, I can get very primal and aggressive as well if my partner is receptive to that. bondage / rope tying, sadism, dirty talk, degradation and humiliation gives me the sweetest sexual satisfaction, but only if you're into it and completely not required. and of course, the warmest most soothing cuddles, deepest most releasing backrubs, hair strokes, and all such aftercare works should proceed.

please dont read this and say im just looking for sex or just a hookup. I prefer ongoing play partners to one night stands but am open to either; my best intimate connections have always turned into intellectual and supportive connections as well. perks of playing with me include:

  • free informational tips on any form of speculation, business or general hustlin (stocks, options, crypto, collectibles, etc)
  • connections to jobs and networking opportunities
  • deep discussion on the whats what of subcultural music and art
  • fashion direction: love to style my girls
  • political / philosophical perspectives you maybe never heard before but should
  • general inspiration and motivation: rise and grind type vibes

also, for sex related bonuses, i dont mind 1) body hair (save your trim / wax money) 2) dont care about period blood (get your d appointment any time of the month)

as far as stats, I have the 3 6s: 6 figure salary, 6'1" height, beautiful cut shiny meaty 9 inch member (I'm not really concerned with money but I know some women like a man who supports himself). I maintain my health as a top priority and remain drug and disease free as well as quarantined and frequently covid tested.

Finally, before you say I'm "not your type" I urge you to consider looking a little deeper. Not everything is as it seems on the outside; someone you normally wouldn't see yourself with might be exactly what you need. What matters is being able to understand someone's body and give it what it needs, and that's what I know exactly how to do.

I want to share your most enjoyable sensory experience in years. hmu and let's take it from there. Waiting for you 😉

⁉️Q&A BASED SUMMARY⁉️

how tall are you? 6'1"

do you have your own place / live alone? yes

do you drive / have a car? yes

do you support yourself / can you support me financially? yes

will you support me financially? no

whats your sign? libra

whats your personality type? based on five factors model: high openness, high conscientiousness, low extroversion, average agreeableness, low neuroticism

do i just want sex? no, i want a common connection and also sex. if you just want sex tho im fine w that

if u dont just want sex, what else do you bring to the table? little bit of a loaded question. just know i do everything in my power to help my partners achieve their dreams, even ones they havent dreamt yet. you can do and be what you want to around me.

i act toward liberation from all oppressive constructs and hold judgment free space for you to learn and grow in. i let you do you, just give me the same.

do i want a fuckbuddy / friend w benefits? yes, one thats actually both.

why would i have sex with you? long story short, chances are youll be glad you did. read on for more.

do you do foreplay? i shouldnt even be asking for this if i didnt. but yes, i like to make sure you finish before i start.

do you eat pussy? yes, well.

do you eat ass? yes. not sure if well but p sure its the effort that counts here.

do u take it in the ass? no. tried it once (with a girl), never again

how big is your d***? 9"

can you last long? yes, i can cum minimum 4 times without needing to pause at all

how is your stroke game? masterful. not bragging just telling the truth.

how is your pullout game? i use condoms so nonexistent

do u have stds? no as of 5/05/2024

hiv test negative; ask for results

do you have covid? no, vaccinated as of 3/25/2021 boosted 12/13/2021 boosted 8/22/2022

do i need to shave? no

can we play on my period? yes

are you kinky? yes, but its not a necessity

what kinks are you into? bondage, domination, rope rigging, orgasm torture, sadism, impact, breath, dirty talk,degradation, humiliation (only if ur down)

are you experienced in kink? yes, since 2017

what is your safe word? red / traffic light system

are you experienced in the lifestyle/polyamory/ non-monogamy: yes, since 2015

if all this is true, why don't you already have girls to play with? i do. i want more

doesnt sex with multiple partners give you stds? refer to "do u have stds" (hint: no)

what if youre not my type? i look a lot better in motion ;) but how i can make you feel matters more than surface level features. step out of your comfort zone and it might benefit you.

DISCLAIMER: i want to agree what we want and don't want from an encounter and then meet to fulfill that agreement. not open to endless online conversation or intro dates; message me (just following me or interacting with my posts does not count as shooting your shot; actually message me) only if you want to meet to play soon. NO DEMISEXUALS UNLESS WE ALREADY KNOW EACH OTHER. AFAB ONLY.

dick

P.S. I look better in motion.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

95% Dominant 93% Degrader 91% Master/Mistress 90% Exhibitionist 89% Primal (Hunter) 85% Rigger 85% Owner 85% Non-monogamist 85% Experimentalist 76% Sadist 76% Daddy/Mommy 75% Brat tamer 72% Voyeur 66% Ageplayer 51% Primal (Prey) 46% Switch 41% Girl/Boy 41% Brat 40% Pet 35% Vanilla 26% Rope bunny 18% Submissive 18% Degradee 16% Masochist 11% Slave

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