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I’ll be upfront: I’ve been a sad sack lately. But I wanna be a happy sack!

I do have success stories from Reddit. Alas, I am in Pasadena, and they are in OC, Riverside, Agoura, and Bakersfield (!). We still see each other, but with traffic/schedules the way they are, it’s not often enough for me. Which brings me back to Reddit.

I am seeking a fun, fearless female who wants a FWB/casual relationship. I would like regular bedtime, but also to go on fun adventures/dates. What I seek:

• Any (legal) age, but a preference for 35 and up, because I think we vibe better
• Somebody who lives in the “thirty mile zone,” ideally. Hopefully. For the love of God, please. I can’t deal with more traffic.
• Any relationship status, assuming you have good opsec
• Politically liberal/left. If you have a MAGA hat in your wardrobe, we probably won’t get along, unless it’s part of a scary Halloween costume
• Must like dogs! I have a Golden retriever who is a walking glitter bomb of love. And fur. And slobber. You should be cool with all that.
• I love diversity, and all shapes and colors! Ideally, since I love hiking in the mountains and being a flaneur in the city, you’d at least be in shape to keep up with me. But if not, I’m sure we can find other fun activities. 😉
• Sexually, please be open to receiving lots and lots of oral - my very favorite! Bonus points if you’re a kinkster, but also if you are very inexperienced. I’ve made more than a few girls squirt for the first time, and that makes me really happy! I like to think of myself as a lover, not a fucker.
• It is ok - good, even - if you are weird! I just ask that you not be creepy.

About me: * 50, 5’10”, 150 lbs, Asian, salt and pepper hair. * Not diseased! For drugs, casual cannabis. * Recently separated, and now living in a shoebox in Pasadena. But at least I can host! * Needs intimacy/touch/cuddles. Right now, my head isn’t in the right place for a serious relationship, but I’m open to seeing where things might lead * Interests: Travel, both domestic and foreign. Food, esp anything “ethnic”. Music, esp indie pop and classic/alt country. Hiking. Weird museums and art. Fundamentally, I like exploring and learning new things. * In bed, I love giving oral. That’s a must. I also love trying new things, and there’s a good chance I’ve done things you’ve never even imagined. If there’s something you would like, please ask! I am likely to say yes. At the same time, I am respectful of any limits you may have.

I would love to hear from you if you think we might be a match! Please send me a message that does not lead me to question if you are a fembot or catfisher, and we’ll see where it goes! 🙂