While I’ve made a couple great in-person connections from here in the past, recently I’ve been contacted by mainly people on the extremes - either it’s someone who doesn’t seem to communicate much or well, with just a “hello” opener or asking for pics right away (without ever sharing their own first), pretty much giving me no gauge of if we’d even click in person as people! Or it’s someone who does want to communicate & feel out a connection too, who’s reciprocal and fun to talk with…but either is too busy or too far or just not sure if an in-person connection is what they want too.

There’s gotta be other people out here that are fairly local (or at least willing to try what might work if we click), that also want to have genuine conversation and be able to enjoy each other’s company outside of just the physical interactions…but also aren’t just looking to message everyday and go through the banal “whatcha up to” chats, and instead move to more IRL connecting once we’ve both established mutual interest & logistics.

If you’re tired of the fizzles & flops too, seeking that Goldilocks zone of a casual & easygoing - but still enthusiastic and genuine - FWB partnership, then let’s get to know each other, and set up an easy coffee meetup if we’re both feeling it (and once all this crazy rain subsides)!

Ideal situation to me is someone I can take a few bong rips with, cuddle up and watch some funny stuff like Bob’s Burgers or I Think You Should Leave, play some games with (video, card, board, whatever’s fun together), and enjoy a mutually enthusiastic connection of sexual fun & intimacy! Definitely open to some tweaks to that formula for what would fit us best, and feel free to read over some of my older posts for more of my interests & vibe.

For the stats: I’m just a few months from 30, just under 6 foot, average build. Black & brown. Short dark hair currently and usually clean shaven. Prefer someone who is also hygienic & drug/disease free, Covid vaxxed. Otherwise I tend to click well with older partners, but open to 23

Shoot a message my way if this resonated with you and it seems like we could be a good fit! Best of luck regardless.