I am looking for a long-term, exclusive, emotionally connected lover and friend, emphasis on the emotionally connected. A confidante who I can kiss. A lover who I can laugh with.

Who I Am:

• 33, short (5'0"), chubby (145lbs), long brown hair, big brown eyes.

• Located in Orange County, but travel solo to Los Angeles for work pretty often.

• Married. No kids, but one amazing pup who is practically like my kid.

• A lover of all things music. I have curated over 40 Spotify playlists and my official love language is sharing songs.

• A latina who can't speak spanish and hates cilantro. Lo siento.

• A professional who loves what they do and is probably a tad too ambitious.

• Someone with too many memes on their phone. My phone even called me out one time and sent me a notification that said I should delete some of those screenshots to save some space. Let me know if you think I listened to my phone. 😎

• An independent thinker who doesn't listen to their phone.

• A nerd who loves to geek out on anime, board games, Legos, fantasy and sci-fi shows, and opera/musical theatre.

Who You Are (hopefully):

• In a long-term relationship or married like myself.

• A great texter who can hold meaningful conversations, is skilled in the art of banter, and actually has time to message throughout the day. Not interested if you are someone who has to go dark on nights and weekends. I put a lot of effort into my texting game and would like to find someone who matches my effort.

• Funny. Like Seinfeld, Arrested Development, Always Sunny in Philadelphia funny. Bonus points if you can sprinkle some memes in there.

• A bit of a nerd and/or weirdo. Now this can mean a lot of things. If you geek out about things or have a passion for something on the nerdy side, I want to hear about it. Chances are you're my kind of person.

• A fellow music lover. I have a soft spot for music hipsters who can introduce me to new and obscure artists. Tell me if concerts are your happy place.

• Somewhat local to me or flexible enough to be able to travel. I am terrible at long distance. 

• An emotionally intelligent open book who is deeply curious about others and who is willing to talk about anything and everything. Bonus points if you go straight for the deep questions like I do.

• Willing to exchange photos early to establish mutual attraction. SFW photos in intro messages always get my attention faster.