I been told by guys that apparently they love it, when girls reach out or make the first move, but I’m convinced they’re 100% lying.

About last month I went to a show here in my cities alternative scene and this guy had approached me I wasn’t even expecting it, but he came up to me and asked me about my eyebrow piercing and whether it hurt or not and I said I had a high pain tolerance and stuff and he said something about tattoos and I showed him mine and he liked it, and he said something about how he can’t get mine because I have it and how we can be friends or have matching tattoos if we were friends and did he asked me for my Instagram and he said if I wanted some pictures to let him know, he’s like one of those people at the shows or parties that takes pictures or videos, his He’s basically a videographer, But we both have film in common and photography as a hobby

After that I hadn’t stoped thinking about him I guess, I was told I should just reach out, but I never have good experiences in reaching out to men or guys in general

Well I did and well it just didn’t go well, he saw my message and didn’t reply, that was it.

I feel embarrassed and incredibly stupid, probably will never reach out to a guy I’m interested ever again