Well I hope this finds you. Im not vary articulate with writing so forgive me. But I just want to reach out and start a conversation why is it that so many people are so alone in a time when we have the resources to so connected. I have my one perspective on it but I won’t bore you.

I just want to say you can find your way into a new place with people around you who care. And I know you didn’t ask for advice and I’m sorry if this rubs you the wrong way. But in my one life I find when I felt the most distant from people, friends/family a large part of that was my own fault. I don’t know your situation at all so this may not apply. But I used to tell myself that if I’m not being pressured it’s because they don’t want anything to do with me and I would harden my hart to people and separate myself from those around me. And I still do this it’s something I’m working on it myself. Really all that to say if you find yourself alone and without a friend it’s not there fault or yours all the time. But you should take responsibility or reflect a little and see how you might take some positive action forward and start moving to the place you want to be. For me it’s been helpful to just insert myself in conversation at work at school wherever you are that there are people in community. Find that and make yourself step out of your comfort zones you will I say again you will feel like and intruder an imposter or just uncomfortable but that’s normal we all feel that in the unknown. If you try and don’t give up after one try it will get a little easier the next time and the next. You will find yourself joining naturally and eventually it will normal. And this is not to say you can’t fail lord knows I has at this but it has worked for me and I believe it will again as this is something I’m doing now as I’ve just moved to a new continent only for a while but still I am lonely and this has started to work for me. Never settle your worth so much and you will find what you need I truly believe that. Again sorry for the book and the unasked for advice lol. If you want to chat give me a holler!!