Have a friend and a few years back we were just hanging out because the pair of us were lonely going threw some stuff ... grew close more or less hung out and talked every single day and she proposed about a casual type deal .... which I was fine with. But then I caught feelings wearing my heart on my sleeve but she would tell me she is going on a date with this guy .... which made me feel uncomfortable so I told her k wanted to stop what ever this was because I couldn't stand the thought of another guy being with her .... it really drives me crazy and I'm not the jealous type bit with her I am. So fast faward about a year or 2 she tell me about her dates and the guys she is seeing .... ask me advice ( which is stupid because without me even thinking about it I could be biased without realising it ) but I would tell her it makes me feel uncomfortable and again even goes ask far to tell me about really *private * matters ...... but I really don't think I can take much more ..... its obvious that I and crazy about her iv told her ..... litterly don't want to have a one night stand or date or see anyone els who isn't her. And I know the smart thing is to just walk away from this situation but I litterly can't picture my life without her in it even if ot means all I am doing is hurting myself Really hope some one could give me any kind of advice here where I can still keep her in my life but I really can't stand the thought of any one els being with her ..... it breaking me