I'm 30 and have never been in a relationship before. And girls think it is a red flag for a guy not to have been in one before. And this makes me upset cause I'm being written off before I'm even given a chance. To be fair I'm sure not all girls think like this... sometimes it just doesn't feel that way.

Connecting with people and talking with people have always been challenging with me cause I have social anxiety. It doesn't come easy. I try more now than I used too, but not much luck. I know I have more work to do on my end, but it shouldn't totally write me off as bf material.

I would make a great bf, but it seems I can't get girls to think I would. That's the issue. Yet every year that passes becomes more of an uphill battle. The longer I go without a relationship, the more girls will seem to see me as a big warning sign.

Seems like it's so easy for alot of people to find a partner and then for others like me, it's impossible. But I'm not a red flag, I'm a human that just has challenges different from most people. That shouldn't write me off as a love interest.