Hello name is tazzy. I wanted to share how I feel being a "chub" in the lgbtq community and why I feel lonely. I will start with my body and weight ect. I am a 6'4" 390lbs non-binary bisexual bottom. The lgbtq community was great at first vary loving and caring then it turned sour. On most dating apps any "fat" gay or bisexual guy are treated like garbage and even bears/chubs only want skinny fem boys even if they are both bottoms. The whole community will only date/hookup with u if your a skinny or if your a trans women femboy sissy and or twink. But once you get a belly they don't want anything to do with you. There was a guy I knew he was a twink/femboy and when he turned 33 he started gaining weight and he when from 120lbs to 280 and now no one wants him. I feel like the lgbtqa community doesn't really care and it hurts.