Hey everyone. I’m a 23-year-old woman, and I’ve been feeling pretty isolated lately, especially in my dating life. I’ve realized over time that I’m naturally dominant, and I’m really into the whole dom/sub dynamic. However, finding submissive men who are compatible with me has been a challenge, and it’s been making me feel lonelier than ever.

I’ve tried meeting people at arcades because I heard it’s a good spot, but it hasn’t really worked out for me. I love going to the gym and reading in cafes, but those places haven’t been fruitful either. I’m starting to feel like maybe there’s nowhere I can go to meet the right kind of guy.

A funny but kind of sad story: I once tried to strike up a conversation with a guy at a coffee shop by asking if he’d ever been to any BDSM events. He had no idea what I was talking about and thought I was inviting him to some sort of tech convention! We laughed it off, but it just reminded me how hard it is to find someone who gets me.

So, I’m reaching out here because I’m feeling pretty down about it. Does anyone have suggestions on where to go or how to meet submissive men who might be into the same dynamic? I’d love to hear any advice or even just stories from people who understand what I’m going through.

TL;DR: I’m a dominant 23-year-old woman feeling lonely and struggling to find submissive men. Any tips on where to meet them would be really appreciated.

Thanks for listening.