23F, and feeling incredibly hopeless. I started my “adult” job almost 2 years ago. I never really put much thought into dating until after college, and let me tell you these past two years have sucked in that aspect lol. My whole life I’ve wanted to be a wife and a mother one day. I’ve always dreamt of sports games, and prom dress shopping, and having the really cool basement with the best snacks where everyone wants to come hangout.

Dating in this generation has been incredibly hard and i try to stay aware of what is essentially a gender war and try my best to be empathetic towards men. However, my luck has continuously been terrible. It’s gotten to the point where I feel like a failure in the one goal I’ve wanted most. I fear I’m never going to get married or be a mom and that there’s genuinely something wrong with me.