So my problem is that I’ve never been in a relationship. Recently I’ve been putting myself out there. There’s this girl I’ve been talking to, my friend said she even liked me. We hung out and u couldn’t really tell.

Anyways she invited me and my friend to hang out with her and her group of friends. From the very first moment we didn’t really feel welcome. They acknowledged us but then kept talking with each other, which isn’t really a great start.

The weird thing is, she did not say a single word to me the time we were there. She literally invited me. I’ve always been shy/ introverted but I genuinely tried to talk to her and her friends but I always felt like I’d say something, they’d agree/ acknowledge it and then continue talking with each other. Even my friend who is super outgoing and charismatic struggled.

What was the point of her inviting me just for her to not acknowledge me? She didn’t talk to me and by her body language, she was facing the other direction from me and wasn’t looking at me. She was also sitting in a more closed off way. I’m so confused. I just feel so defeated because I genuinely tried. I’ve never done anything like this. She was my first technical experience going on a date. Although that word wasn’t used. Just hang out.

I see everyone else easily getting into relationships. I try and I’m met with this situation. It’s clear she doesn’t wanna continue anything with me, but it’s such a strange situation.