I’m a man turning 25 soon and looking back throughout the years I can’t help but feel like a loser. I’ve never been in a relationship or had sex (without paying for it and they were all embarrassing experiences). I don’t know why but being 25 and still having to figure dating/sex just seems pathetic, even if I do end up in a relationship or have a meaningful sexual experience, I’m afraid I won’t know what to do and I’ll end up ruining it and it invokes this feeling that it’ll never happen so what’s the point. What hurts even more is seeing people younger than me having it all figured out and living their best lives while I lie in bed depressed and watching my best years slip through my fingers. Everybody says it takes time, but have I not waited long enough???