Hey everyone, cis strait 45M here. Please don’t stop reading. I’m very happily married, secure in work, depressed, anxious, perhaps undiagnosed adhd or somewhere on the spectrum. People cherish my presence and ethic at work, have threatened to leave if i leave, etc. but outside of work, i have zero friends. Literally no one i can call for help moving a couch, no one to take a road trip with, no one to buy a beer for even. I feel longer I’m 99 and all my friends have passed. Short back story, I was the first to get married and all my friends disagreed with my marriage, which is still 20 tears strong, while all their have failed. I work with majority females in their 20’s. They love me, i love them, but just not my social group. What’s a guy to do? Really, do i just accept solitude?