Perhaps I know you.

You desire connection & intimacy. You've learned how to be independent and to stand on your own two feet. To go through the world without the emotional support of a partner, the kind you see your friends get and your envious of. But you've learned to live through the world by yourself.

But that doesn't mean you don't want it. You just don't want to sacrifice who you are for it, like you've done in the past.

I understand that. Because I'm the same.

You also are kinky, but just because you're kinky means you like one off sex, or sex with multiple guys. In fact you have only had a limited number of sexual encounters. You prefer to build a connection with your sexual partners than to not. You tried hooking up once and it turned you off.

I understand that, because I'm the same.

You desire intellectual conversation. To cross swords on topics ranging from history to philosophy. You're well read. For you deep conversation, emotional and intellectual, is one of the very joyous things in life. You bore of those whose understanding of the world is limited to the narrow channels of social media, and their narrow view of the world. You crave for those with wide experiences and wider understanding.

Know why I understand that? I think you get the picture.

This is my kink account. I've not removed a single one of my posts sent during times of loneliness, insecurity, or boredom, when I desired sexual validation (with limited success I might add). But if you read my comments you might get a picture of who I am.

I'm a non judgemental person, or I strive to be. Life is complicated, and I'm self aware enough to know I can't step up on a moral high horse. I'm looking for someone similar. Someone who also strives to be non judgemental in our increasing judgemental culture.

Could that be you? If so get in touch.

All ages welcome.