Hi! Thanks for reading my post! I’m a dominant guy who enjoys taking the lead both inside and outside of the bedroom. I'm a big fan of traditional gender roles, though I have no issue with more modern interpretations of these!
I'm 27, 6ft tall, blond, "dad bod" for want of a better term 😂, quite a type-A personality (although outside of work I’m reasonably easy going!), and very driven to succeed in whatever I do.
I like taking care of people, and I think thats one of the main things that I look for in a submissive, someone who needs to or wants to be taken care of. I'm naturally a protector, and I feel very fulfilled when I'm protecting and looking after someone I care about.
Work wise I'm a technical director. I'm heading up some very exciting projects, and I genuinely enjoy what I do. Outside of work I have a couple of large groups of friends I see quite frequently for dinners, drinks, talks, trips to galleries etc. and I have a tonne of hobbies!
I’m generally pretty passionate, and when I find something that excites me I tend to get very into it very quickly, though I must add it's not too often I find new things that make me feel that way! I'm a very keen yachtsman, so if you love the sea we'll get on swimmingly. I'm also an active motorcyclist, and I love taking people out on the back of my bikes for day trips or longer. I love to travel, and have a long list of places I'd love to have someone to visit with! I adore museums, I love learning about new topics, and I thrive off of social interaction. I'm extremely outgoing, and I think meeting new people is one of life's biggest joys; I truly believe we are all the sum of our experiences and as such it's our duty to have as many experiences as possible!
I’ve been in a couple of fantastic BDSM relationships in the past, but they've all ended for various amicable reasons. I’ve also been in vanilla relationships, but alas whilst I’ve really liked the people, they just don’t satisfy me sexually. I'm dominant both in and out of the bedroom, and I'm really looking for someone who truly wants that sort of scenario.
It should go without saying, but consent is extremely important to me, and I always ensure that I establish clear consent before doing anything with anybody. Additionally, aftercare matters hugely to me, and I'll always be the first one to pull you in for a cuddle after we've done something; I mean to be honest I just love cuddling anyway!
Outside of that, I’m just a chap who really knows what he wants from life. I love snuggling up on the sofa, and I absolutely adore spending time with my partner doing interesting things or just having a nice dinner date. I want somebody who I can take to dinners, events, introduce to my friends, and take on adventures. Really, I want a partner. Somebody to be by my side as we, together, face the challenges that life presents us. Only once in my life (in my last relationship) have I been in a relationship where I genuinely felt like we were a team, and that feeling is something I would love to have again.
I'm a pretty supportive person, and I like to help people where I can. It does take a bit of time to really gain my trust and for me to drop my guard, but once my trust is really gained theres little I won't do for someone. I value loyalty above most everything else, and it's the number one thing I look for in anybody I get close to.
As far as kinks go, I have a great many and I am always open to exploring more! I'd say my top kinks are:
- Wardrobe domination (I have a few particular aesthetics I'm a fan of!)
- OTK Hand Spanking
- Enforced high heel wearing (I can lock them on if you keep taking them off ;-))
- Oral training
- Orgasm denial
- Edging
- Forced orgasms
- Female chastity
- Butt plugs
- Anal play
- Oral (giving) (I LOVE going down on my sub whilst they're all tied up!)
- Bondage
- Role play
- Uniforms (you wearing)
- Begging (HUGE turn on!)
- TPE and many more I can't think of right now!
If you feel intimidated by them, please don't be! If you're new to the scene, looking to explore, or just not sure some of them are for you thats fine! I love exploring new things with people and helping them to discover new sides to themselves.
I’m extremely discreet about my bedroom interests, and I’d ideally like you to be as well (at least in the company of people I know). I’m DDF and would need you to be as well. It's a personal preference thing, and I really hope I don't offend anyone, but I'm really only into women around a size 12 or below. It's just the kind of person I'm attracted to. If you don't fit this bracket then I really hope you find what you're looking for!
If you’ve reached this point and you’re still interested, I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to drop me a message, and I hope you have a great day!
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