Like it says on the tin, I want to strike up a friendship with a guy who would consider himself to be dominant. I mean dominant along the lines of someone who is confident, self-assured, tactile, demonstrative, and knows what he wants and how to get it.

What you can expect in return is a mate who will recognise and respect your place as leader in the friendship. Who will conform to your tastes and preferences. Who will defer to your choices on which movie to put on or which pub to meet at or which restaurant to order delivery from. Who will learn and care about your hobbies. Who's always game for a play wrestle even though he knows he'll be pinned to the floor in seconds flat. You get the gist.

What I'm not looking for here is a romantic situation. I don't care what your sexuality is, and hey if you need the occasional relief of a throat you can fuck that's a different discussion, but at it's core this should be a friendship. I'm not looking to hook up and I don't want to get off with you. I'd sooner discuss your latest sexual conquest or chat about who you think is hot. That said, ideally you'll be comfortable with initiating physical contact and some degree of casual nudity. I'll share your bed but I don't want to swap saliva.

I'm 29, live in West London, and am white with an average build and height. I have a job that keeps me busy during the day but can prioritise you in my evening and weekend plans. I can travel to meet up anywhere that public transport goes in London, and can have you over to hang at my place occasionally. I'm only looking for people who also live in London and who want to meet up in person - no online only. The age range I'd feel most comfortable with is somewhere between 20 and 40. Ideally you can also host at your place.

If you've read this far and think this sounds appealing at all, head on over to my chats or DMs. To root out spam and low effort people please include a description of yourself and what makes you interested my post. I'll reply to anyone who makes even the slightest effort to respond to the post rather than sending a generic greeting. If you're willing to share a sfw picture of yourself upfront then even better - I'll respond with mine and we can go from there. But if not upfront, I still want to exchange pictures and get out of the online chatting phase fairly quickly so come prepared.