Hello! I'm looking for a Londoner who is interested in forming a bond and developing a FWB-style dynamic with a nerdy, south/southwest London guy. A previous partner who I met over Reddit described me as "surprisingly normal for a guy looking for sexy meet-ups over Reddit". I wasn't sure how to take her words given that I consider myself to be quite the nerd. In particular, I'm somewhat obsessively nerdy about politics. Lots of people might have strong opinions about the government here, but few people probably get as invested in party dynamics of foreign countries as I do. I'm genuinely a very curious guy and I believe that this curiosity explains my main hobbies. I enjoy walking tours, trying new foods, and museums. I'm also a fairly obsessive music nerd who enjoys indie rock (Last Dinner Party, Fontaines DC, Sam Fender, etc.) as well as pure pop music like Carly Rae Jepsen. I probably know too much about music, to be fair.
Anyway, for me, the connection is most important part of this FWB dynamic. I am into kink but I'm also equally into more vanilla activities. So long as the connection is right, the sexual activities should go well. I am decently inexperienced so I would tend to prefer more experienced partners but that's not a dealbreaker. I have been with a woman, but I've never been with a man. Either way though, the connection is the most important thing. You can't have the "friends with benefits" without "friends".
My ideal introduction would be heading to a local pub for conversation. I don't drink alcohol but I still enjoy pubs. This feels like a good way to get to know each other before taking any further steps. My chatbox and DMs are always open so if this proposal from a fairly nerdy 5'7 white guy sounds like fun, don't be shy!
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