I am a kinky person with a creative imagination who is looking for a similar Londoner to "match" with. While I do wish to meet up in the near future, I am putting the emphasis on establishing the "match" between us because these type of arrangements will only work if we both understand where the other partner is coming from.

I am a switch male but both my dominant and submissive tendencies rely heavily on psychology and power dynamics. If you are a submissive that wants a man who will use his brute force to dominate you, I am probably not that guy. Likewise, if you are a dominant who just wants to slap me around, then this will also not work. Instead, I tend to focus on subtle themes of power exchange and degradation. For example, I once made a submissive play with my manhood through my underwear while I completely ignored her. If that appealed to you as either a dominant or as a submissive, we might be on the right track.

I'm a published writer and I do enjoy writing. Obviously, the focus of this post is meeting up in-person but I do believe that having fairly deep conversations that may or may not involve long written passages is an important part of whatever dynamic we establish. I want to get to know you and I want you to get to know me.

Dominant women, submissive women, dominant men, and submissive men are all on the table for me. I am able to host in southwest London most days of the week but please do not just say "I'd love to suck you off tonight" in your initial message. Remember, the focus of this post is on the connection.

In keeping with that focus, I want to be completely 100% upfront from the get-go. My post history on other naughty subreddits is an open book. I have never been with a man sexually before and I have limited experiences with women. It just so happens that my limited experiences did involve a bit of kink and power dynamics. If this relative lack of experience is a problem for you, I completely understand. For the rest of you, I hope I can win you over with my naughty imagination, obsession with power dynamics, and desire to make a genuine connection.