FWB is a bit loaded isnāt it? First things first, I donāt mean āhey, letās dissolve the courtesy of respectful communication and talk about how I should bend you over as that seems to be accepted, because you know, patriarchy.ā Erm, no.
What I mean by this is, letās understand a bit about each other in a friendly non pressured way, talk openly about our sexual preferences whilst understanding basic things like boundaries, consent and mutual pleasures.
Iām not here to find someone submissive, nor do I identify as a dom, dare I say, compared to that Iād go as far as to consider myself āVanillaā - whatever the fuck that is?! Actually, I prefer the simple things, human interaction, questions, understanding, perspective, experiences. And guess what, thereās more to each of us that just sex!! I donāt believe in putting sexual preferences in a nicely packaged box that allows us each to pre judge against own prejudices, conscious or unconscious.
āWhat am I even trying to say?ā Hmm, good question, I guess Iād like to peel away the pretence in search for mutual pleasure, this could start with a smile, a stroke of the hand an awkward glance, letās enjoy the nuanced. But first of all, letās understand a bit about each other and go from there.
Iām looking for a friend with an openness to share sexual experiences. This suits me because Iām in a loving open relationship.
This could easily end up becoming a monologue into the ether about conventional relationships or social conditioning to accept toxic behaviour but Iāll refrain.
TL;DR - letās have a conversation and see if we like each other.
Thanks for reading my post.
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