Alright, so I’ve always had a bit of a thing for men who are older than me. I’ve usually dated to upwards of 11/12 years and I’ve always had a good time. For a while I was shamed by my family and friends for not trying men my own age but let’s me honest, they’re just boys and I’ve had zero success with any of them, so I’m hoping I can find some lovely Redditors who want to help me out.

What I’m looking for: I’m currently studying for my masters degree so I don’t have the time to keep a full on, fully fledged relationship, so to start with I’m just looking for someone who is open to casually dating, going out and doing nice things together and also having some great sex too, but I’m not against things becoming more serious once my studies are done if that’s what the vibe is like. To be clear I am not interested in NSA/ONS or meaningless hook ups - they’re unfulfilling and dull most of the time - connection is key for me.

About you: older, obviously - looking for someone over the age of 35 ideally, I would go up to someone in their mid-50s. Someone who has their shit together, can hold a conversation (serious or nonsense, I don’t mind!), has a sense of humour and is respectful, likes drinking wine (or anything else!), eating good food and generally having a good time. I’d ideally like someone taller than me - I’m 5’9 and I like a man with a beard and tattoos although none of those are really dealbreakers. Don’t particularly have a body type I’m into either. I’d like to make sure we’re attracted to each other before we get too deep into talking, so please be comfortable with sharing SFW pics too!

About me: as I said before, I’m currently studying my masters degree, I’m 5’9 with pale skin, blue eyes and red hair, am curvy/plus sized so if you’re looking for a skinny gal then probably best to move on. I have a variety of interests which means we’ll likely not run out of things to talk about and have generally been described as ‘a riot’

So, if this sounds like you and you think we might get on, send me a message with a little about you, and a question you want to ask and let’s see what happens!