Maybe it’s you, naked and blindfolded, spread-eagled on the bed, wrists and ankles tied. Not knowing where the next touch is going to come from; will it be a stroke, nails tracing lightly down your back, or will it be something much much harder?

Or maybe it’s the immediacy of being bent over, skirt hitched up to your waist, feeling the heat spread through your body as I spank you, hand in your hair, you whimpering as you hear the smack against your skin the split second before you feel the pain hit.

Or maybe you’re in your finest lingerie, kneeling on the floor of the hotel room, fingers inside your knickers as instructed as you await my arrival, not knowing what I'll do to you, being so turned on in anticipation.

Or the walk to the shops, feeling the sharpie writing against your skin, feeling the plug in your ass, in the outfit chosen for you, knowing that there’s no one else that could know that, no one can tell what's going on underneath those clothes, surely?

I’m 35, 5’10, London based professional. Conventionally handsome, slim, caucasian, salt and pepper in my hair. Highly experienced in BDSM – my kinks are many and varied, too much so to just set out in a simple post like this.

I’m well educated, good company, understand the vital importance of trust and aftercare, an extremely good teacher and facilitator, very good with words I’m told, oh and a complete sadist.

I've had previous success from reddit and can also provide references from play partners if needed who will be able to confirm that I'm exactly as much fun as I say I am...

Looking for online or real life, depending on your location. Happy to chat to those experienced on the scene or those new and looking to explore.

Essentially what I’m looking for is someone who values communication, is open minded, and wants to have all kinds of delicious and filthy fun.

Outside of kink, I'm into drinking a bit too much wine, gigs, exhibitions and galleries, wild swimming, exploring new places and all that good stuff.

Look forward to hearing from you...