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I am

A Dom who is looking for a long term partner and for the most part am looking for someone who enjoys the role of being a service sub. Although that is the main trait I am looking for I would consider myself a variety Dom, I enjoy many things and performing a variety of roles. I enjoy being a sadist, a rigger, a bully/teaser, a Daddy, a Master to a servant, a Master to a slave, role playing, being worshipped, being sensual, being a comforter and comforted.
While this is not an exhaustive list, it is an example of what I mean when I say that I am a variety Dom. I cannot wake up every day and always perform the exact same role, in fact I would say that the default state that I function in on a daily basis is that of a regular person and I do regular things. Let me be clear, I am looking for a relationship, not a 24/7 kink scene, I want to find someone where we can sit down, eat popcorn and watch a movie together, sure we can make it kinky if we feel like it, but I want to find someone I enjoy the company of and feel comfortable with.

I've said "I" too much, so onto:

You hopefully are

A memer, a dreamer, a gamer and a real G. That is to say, a fucking Nerd like myself. If we can vibe together on a couch sending each other memes, well, that's 1000x better than getting my ass ate. From a kink perspective, I'm a variety Dom, therefore I'd like to find someone who can be a variety sub, or who is at least down to indulge me in my perversions.

Hopefully you appreciate the love language of physical touch, aftercare, and of course memes without context. I would list some things you might enjoy involving wax, clothes pegs or whips, but I find that just attracts flaky people just thinking with their clam and looking to get a quick 20 minute fantasy out of messaging me. So I'll just say, hope you enjoy the idea of me finding weird things to do with you.

Message me if

You've read this far (go on, you're not wasting my time) While I do have an idea in my head (perhaps too much of one) for what I'm looking for, I don't have any hard and fast rules about you physically (except 18 at least plz) I'm not willing to do a cross country LDR or join a polyamorous relationship. Please come to me with openness, if you feel there may be something that's a deal breaker, or you would like to confirm if I have any deal breakers of yours. It's better to address those out the gate and together we can explore what could be.