I’m a quiet, introverted woman, and posted on reddit about this for the first time about a week ago.

About me - I grew up in a pretty conservative household, so this feels a little outside my comfort zone, but I’m hoping to connect with someone who’s patient and understanding.

Physically, I’m East Asian, 5’1”, 120 lbs, with a curvy figure (36C) that’s soft and feminine—not chubby, but definitely not gaunt or overly thin either. I’ve been told I have a warm smile, and maybe a few other features that tend to linger in people’s minds.

I’ve never been in a relationship before, and I’m still a virgin, which makes me a little self-conscious since most of my peers have already had those experiences. It’s something I’ve been shy about, but I’m ready to share that part of myself with someone who’s kind, patient, and can make it feel truly special. I’m not looking for anything too serious, but I’d love to share something genuine, intimate, and maybe even a little unforgettable.

I can be a little socially awkward at first, but I have a playful side once I feel comfortable. I enjoy quiet nights in, good books, and deep conversations. But lately, I’ve realized there’s a lot I haven’t experienced, and I’d like to change that with someone who knows how to help me feel confident and at ease.

Nothing has quite clicked from the messages I received from my previous posts - and unfortunately a small fraction of the messages were pretty nightmarish/intimidating. Telling me you're going to make me "beg for mercy" or "force [me] to socialise" or "make [me] choke on a big **** until [I'm] in tears" or offering for my first experience to be an an*l g*ngb*ng to "break [me] in" is really not okay. However, there were lots of lovely messages to which I'm slowly getting back to - though at about 600 messages it's been a challenge.

If you think we’d get along and this resonates with you, send me a message. To show you’ve read this far, include the word “paws” somewhere in your message!