Lives in LONDON - UK
This is going to be a long post but my friend is a traditional type of wife. She is looking for something serious.
Pakistani Origin
“I am looking for something that sees their self fitting in a life together and I’ve written down all the things that I’d like. I know all of them won’t be achieved but there is the potential for growth.”
“What I am looking for?
Essential Requirements
Strong: Physically, emotionally, and mentally resilient; someone who can support you in difficult times.
Family-Oriented: Values family and is committed to building and maintaining strong family relationships.
Selective Past: Someone who hasn’t been promiscuous, reflecting a more thoughtful and selective approach to relationships.
Ambitious & Driven: Has clear goals and the motivation to achieve them, demonstrating a strong work ethic.
Provider: Willing and able to provide for a family financially, emotionally, and physically.
Loyal: Will stick by you through thick and thin, demonstrating unwavering commitment.
Career Stability: Has a good, stable job that aligns with his ambitions and can support a future family.
Respectable: Behaves in a manner that brings pride and never embarrassment, particularly in social settings.
Articulate: Speaks well and communicates effectively, whether in conversation or written communication.
Intelligent: Has a sharp mind, is curious, and seeks knowledge; can engage in deep, meaningful conversations.
Reader: Enjoys reading and learning, suggesting intellectual curiosity and a reflective nature.
Culinary Skills: Can cook and enjoys sharing this skill, contributing to a balanced and shared household.
Independent: Does not rely on his mother or others for daily tasks, showing maturity and self-sufficiency.
Communicative: Regularly checks in, texts, and maintains open lines of communication.
Attentive: Sends thoughtful gestures like flowers and listens intently when you speak.
Generous: Doesn’t cheap out on important things, showing he values quality and your happiness.
Adventurous (with me): Enjoys adventure but prioritizes sharing these experiences with you.
Hardworking Background: Started working young, so understands the value of hard work and perseverance.
AMBITION. I need them to WANT to provide for a family. To WANT to be the man of the household without being controlling about it.
Optional Traits:
Sense of Humor: Can make you laugh and enjoys light-hearted moments.
Stylish: Has a good sense of style and presents himself well.
Health-Conscious: Takes care of his physical and mental health through exercise and balanced living.
Handy: Can fix things around the house and enjoys DIY projects.
Socially Graceful: Can navigate social situations with ease, from small gatherings to large events.
Tech-Savvy: Comfortable with technology and uses it to enhance your lives together.
Financially Literate: Manages money well, invests wisely, and has a good understanding of financial planning.
Culturally Aware: Appreciates and understands different cultures, enjoys travel, and learning about the world.
Animal Lover: Enjoys and cares for pets or has a soft spot for animals.
Romantic: Enjoys making romantic gestures and planning special dates or surprises.
What does he get in return?
Thoughtfulness and Care: You deeply care about your partner’s well-being, consistently showing support and love in both big and small ways.
Attentiveness and Listening: You’re genuinely attentive and listen to your partner, making them feel heard, understood, and valued.
Romantic and Playful Spirit: Your romantic and cheesy side adds warmth and joy to the relationship, creating a loving atmosphere filled with fun, laughter, and little surprises.
Home-Making and Hospitality: You create a home environment that is welcoming, warm, and loving, not just for your partner but for anyone who enters your life.
Strong Sense of Loyalty and Protection: You’re fiercely loyal and will always have your partner’s back, defending and supporting them through thick and thin.
Commitment to Building a Future: You’re serious about finding a life partner, someone you can grow with and build a lasting future together.
Creative and Thoughtful in Relationships: From planning home dates to leaving sweet notes, you show your love in creative, heartfelt ways that keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
Family-Oriented and Inclusive: value family and ensure your partner feels welcomed and included in your family circle, creating a strong sense of belonging.
Social awareness: Confidence and self sufficient in social settings and otherwise.
Independent and self suffcient: I solo travel, I’m waiting for the right person to experience the world with.
Sense of humour: I’m actually FUNNY
Financially literate: I’m not stupid with my money
Capable of growth. Evolving every day, wants to grow with someone.
I work incredibly hard, I’ve worked so hard to get to where I am.
I’m thoughtful, romantic, dedicated to my partner and myself.
A good example is that I like sharks.
I’d love if someone made me shark shaped pasta or cookies or bread.
I’d love lil plushies.
Another way - I love witchy and macabre things so planning a day centred around that. Say you plan and drive us up somewhere and have a route planned out.
I believe in a traditional relationship dynamic where the man takes on the role of being the true provider and handling all those aspects of our life. It's something that feels natural to me and makes me feel secure and cared for.
I will be a bombshell wife everyone will be jealous of exclusively to you 😘”
If you actually read this all, please message me with “Wife2319”
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