Perhaps this is just me projecting my own ideals of what I’d like and it doesn’t actually exist, but on the off chance it does, here’s my post.

Firstly, I’m in a loving relationship, married in fact. But we don’t necessarily subscribe to what is predominantly accepted as a social norm that relationships need to be monogamous. With that said, I have the freedom to create my own connections with people and have the autonomy of being an individual. I guess I feel this is important for me to say as I don’t want to lead anyone on and I can understand that this may put some people off, that’s cool and thanks for reading up to hear, it’s that’s already a deal breaker, I wish you all the best.

Now, if you are still reading, thank you 😁, let’s get into it.

After my 40 odd years of existence, I’ve come to the conclusion that things aren’t necessarily as black and white as we’re taught and that’s how I feel about intimacy and relationships in general. For me, part of being a person is to feel and experience new things and feel like creating and the stigma around sexual expression is something I care less about.

I’m looking for someone who values a type of connection that can be physical but without the baggage that comes with expectations. I’d like to create our own sense of normal and have some fun along the way whilst we discuss/debate/explore the things we enjoy that give us each pleasure. I enjoy delving into perspectives, preferences in an open and intimate way to experience something genuine and freeing.

Attraction for me comes from confidence. Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes but I like a woman who is aware of her worth and owns it. Race isn’t an issue for me, in fact I like the idea of canoodling with someone who has heritage from further shores.

I maintain an active lifestyle by playing sports, bouldering, gym and cycling when I can.

Tanned skin, shaved/stubble, 5’7” 68kg, snipped and clean. :)