I'm looking to see who's out there and what connections I can make, ideally looking for something long-term and would like a relationship. I'm using Reddit before I consider dipping my toe back into the dating world of apps (totally not looking forward to this xD)

Some various "box words" for the lazy :P

INFJ | Ambivert (Extroverted Introvert) | Geeky | Sporty | Casual Gamer (PC) | Running | Badminton | Tech/IT | Dad Jokes | Dark Humour | Sarcasm | Whovian | Leftie (handed/footed/and politically leaning) | Rare Drinker | Non-smoker | Caring | Sweet tooth | many more boxes to be added too :D

And for a more fleshed out version...

I'm 32, single, white, 6ft tall, slim build (75-80kg) with blue eyes and brown hair (though I do go through phases where I dye it...) I'm an IT Manager, I live alone and own my own place, yay for adulting - so do have my shit together, for the most part! I'm an ambivert, and really an extroverted introvert... I can socialise and all, but also need time to recharge the batteries! When i'm not geeking out at work, I can be a bit of a geek at home, I do play some PC games and some of my interests are geeky based, Computers, Tech, Photography, Marvel, Star Wars, The Boys, Doctor who, Harry Potter, some anime and probably a few more. I wouldn't say I'm hardcore into anything but on some, probably a bit more than casual.

That said, there's many layers to me, I infrequently go to the gym (honestly, I hate it.. Give me cardio any day!) I run, play some sports, right now it's mostly badminton, but I have/do play football, tennis and picked up golf too. But generally I'm down for any sports and try to maintain a decent level of fitness/activity. I also like baking and cooking, more so baking due to my sweet tooth! Going new restaurants and trying new things - I love food! I like travelling, definitely if activities involved, hiking, beaches, architecture, history and all! Soaking up the culture. The only real thing is I'm not much of a drinker or party/club person, it's not really my scene.

There's much more, shows, music, etc. but can save that for conversations, as this is already turning into a wall of text :')

NSFW stuff - if you're curious or a dirty perv (no judgement)

I'm 6.5" and uncut, DDF and naturally a switch, but can lean into either side depending on my partner. Kink friendly and adaptable/versatile, I tend to be more of a giver or receive pleasure from my partner enjoying, whatever form that takes, I am more on the caring and nurturing side, though also a darker streak too. Any questions or curiosities here, please just ask, happy to have a discussion and elaborate further on anything. I am monogamous though, little greedy/clingy and not sharin', would expect and hope the same :P

I'd probably say I'm looking for someone 7 years either side and a healthy weight, whether that's slim to curvy... But if you feel we may be a good match, similar energy, etc. I am open to chatting and seeing where things go. Feel free to message if something resonates or you wanna chance it! I would certainly prefer someone London based, or as close as possible. But don't mind some distance, that said, anything long-term/serious, I'd be keen to close that gap sooner than later.

Happy to swap pics, answer and questions or curiosities you may have! I'm pretty much an open book, so feel free to ask anything, no need to hold back :)