Hello, I'm new to this community. I searched the archives but didn't find anything about this; please let me know if I missed a post.

Does anyone have books they can suggest on the topic of living apart together? I did order Vicki Larson's book as I read her posts here. :)

I'm interested especially in books to help folks who had (mostly) cohabiting relationships before and are newer to intentionally choosing LAT. And I would also love to find books about forging relationships with someone who has kids, where you choose to live separately.

My own situation is that I am (newly) building a relationship with another woman who actively coparents with her ex-husband. They live together platonically to coparent; they are not sure how long they will want to do this, but it's for the foreseeable future. So I am looking to read about ideas to help me feel more assurance about growing our relationship while also choosing to live apart; it always comforts me to have a book to turn to when I'm doing something that feels like an important development in my life.