I’m very new to this space, I’ve always been into the dom/sub dynamic but never had too much experience with it, I’m a natural switch and I match the vibe of whoever I’m with to make them feel comfortable, anyway that doesn’t matter too much.

My main question is what do y’all get up to when ur not in your littlespace? Cause as much as I love taking care of someone (or being taken care of in some cases) and it is a big part of the dynamic, but for me, for a healthy relationship to last and work I almost need/want someone who can also be my best friend, like vibe with me, listen to music, fuck around and do dumb shit with, and I don’t mean little stuff, as much as that’s fun too I prefer a slight balance. Idk I could be weird and misinterpreting this community and I’m sorry if this even offends anyone.

Main question I have is: is this a common mindset that y’all have or am I an outlier here? And I’m curious what y’all get up to when your out of little space