I don't know a whole lot about cgl/ddlg/abdl other than initial shallow impressions, so I have a lot of stupid questions. I just know that for some cursed reason, I'm really into middles or littles style of cutesy-ness. Like, really into it, except for abdl/pacifiers.

However, I can never be a daddy or a mommy. I'm kind of a femboy/transgirl (i don't wanna pick a label) who actually focuses significantly more on looking cuter than my own age as well. I'm just someone who watches a lot of Japanese media and wants to be as cute as that... but that doesn't really translate well I feel like. Outside of little/middle kind of spaces, that kind of "kawaii" is basically nonexistent outside of the country for some reason... but I wanna be like that, and I wanna date someone who's like that. ;-;

So basically... all that pastel, all that sanrio, everything cute, but on both partners. I guess I'm definitely into brat-taming but other than that, I don't think I can do the daddy/mommy/caregiver role... I'd rather also be kind of a middle myself. Or maybe a middle could also be a d/m/cg? I think I'm overthinking it...

How many littles/middles look for another little/middle? I feel like, overwhelmingly, every little/middle wants either a big strong daddy type guy, or less often, a big caring mommy... (I mean, I guess it's in the name, but. 😢)