I (28F) am dating my best friend (30M), and we have been together for about 2 years now. I have slowly and I mean SLOWLY been introducing little stuff to him.

Before we started dating we were friends for 3 years and when it went in a romantic direction I told him I was a little. He has zero idea what that meant and generally is pretty Vanilla.

It's been a lot of patient work to introduce more things, I typically wait a couple months before bringing up a new topic and so far he has told me that he is open to it and he wants to make me happy. Recently I opened up about diapers and after a couple months of off and on talking about my experience he visited and encouraged me to wear at the movies.

I've never worn around anyone, I haven't had a single partner who knew I was a little.

I got diapered up and we left but besides me doing a lot of blushing it wasn't talked about. I got home and felt embarrassed so I just went in the bathroom to change 😅 he is doing so good at exploring out of his comfort zone..

Basically how do I relax into the dynamic knowing that I kind of need to guide it/educate? And in addition how do I build confidence with being vulnerable like that with someone else.