Hiya everyone, hope you’re all well.

I’m a 31yr old male from Sydney Australia, and I just don’t know if I’m fit to call myself a daddy or anything along those lines. I know I’m not the type who’s fit to have dependents (I’m not looking to have kids for that and other reasons) and I feel like that’s kind of one of the core requirements of a daddy; is being someone strong, solid and reliable; with the funds, energy and ability to care for another.

But I love having a cute little one look up at me, cuddle into me, snuggle up…

Though I’ve never really got the fascination with pacifiers/diapers either (but of course anyone who likes them has every right to); so I’m thinking maybe I just don’t fit the aesthetic…? :/

Plus I just seem to struggle to find anyone local no matter where I look, so perhaps that’s got me down too. :/

I’m just not sure what I’m doing, or if I’m even in the right place.