Im all for everyone being welcomed into littlespace spaces and keeping things positive and with no conflict with controversial stuff.

But i had an encounter with someone i meet on a subreddit and basically they still wanted to be little with me after expressing they dont believe in police brutality and BLM and any activists thing relating to violence against black people.

I immediately stopped talking to them and thought i could be safe in the discord server and they became active on their again and it made me immediately uncomfortable. I wanted to interact with others but i didnt want to conversate with them. And i thought what if there are others in the server like me and he tries to connect with them.

Mind you when i told him how i felt he said people victimize themselves when it comes to these topics and he prefer to ignore that and want people who develop connections with them to pretend that didn't happen.

I tried contacting the mod and i noticed they were pro actvist on these topics and they said they keep politics out of the server to keep it a positive space.

I agree that maybe the whole server shouldn't be based on talking about that all the time since its a littlespace server. But after that and after i told them who it was. I wake up and find they are still in the Gen chat.

Im thinking maybe since they didn't say anything hurtful to black individuals in the server itself that hes still good to interact and stay in the server.

I feel like maybe though that im being extreme and since it happened privately i should drop it because its not fair to that person that i stopped talking to.

Im thinking that is the case.

Its so confusing to navigate such a situation. Especially being a black person in that server trying to dance around a person that sees me as someone that lies about their experiences :(

I dont have alot of places to feel safe online especially with littlespace and it may be one less place fir me if i decide its best to leave the server to avoid causing issues to other members.