I'm a little who Wants a nonsexual dynamic however I always end up talking to guys that claim they understand it and find ways to push that boundary. It makes me wonder if its even for me since most of the people ive interacted with likes the kink controlling side of it.

I say i want wholesone bubblebaths, cuddles, bedtime stories, and playtimes(with toys and tea parties dressup). They hear it as, lets have sex in the bubblebath, lets have sex and cuddle, let my tell you a story while we have sex.

Its nothing wrong if others want to sexual dynamic but for me its something i dont want and its always ignored.

I just want to be seen as a human and not a sexual object for once. I always have to be expected to perform and arouse another when i just wanted a safe space to share with someone.

I went completely off topic by venting oof

Are there any cgs that actually like the loving caring nuturing side of littlespace without the idea if dominating over a little.

Again nothing wrong with anyone else that likes their dynamic that way as long as consent and respect is involved. Sorry for the rant.