NOTE: If you dont agree with my post because of views please keep scrolling and dont say hateful things.

Im just venting about a situation i had. Thank you

I was talking to a person who was a little same as me trying to get to know them before doing little stuff and found out he likes to acoid topics around troubling experiences specifically black experiences

Im African American and ive had my fair share of incidents where i was discriminated against and racially profiled

I had an assignment to watch a black movie for class and when i was talking about it he wanted to change the subject and said he wasn't comfortable talking about things he may accidentally offend people about.

This made me uncomfortable, i realized i didn't want to be little with someone who will just shut me down about the trauma i experience from the color of my skin.

Littlespace is to me is very vulnerable and intimate and i should feel safe and i didn't feel safe with him.

I had to have my best interest and safety at heart and stop talking to him and said my goodbyes this morning.

Instead of apologizing he just said "if thats how you feel okay"

Even i feel relieved i was still upset because i want to be in a relationship and have a connection but its hard to find it but im proud of myself for making sure Im okay as it was hard for me to do that before.

It gives me the opportunity to find someone im compatible with and respects me and loves me. But there are some days i feel like its impossible because there are so many bad apples. I wonder where the good ones are.