Hi,I need some advice on my little. We've been together for a little over 3 months. I'm running into some issues that I need to change otherwise I might unfortunately have to move on.

A little about us is i'm 28 years old and been a dom a little under a year. I'm still learning a lot but trying to get better. My girl is a little and kitty and her little age is around 4-6. She likes stuffies and coloring. There's just a few things that are bugging me that we need to work though. The biggest thing is she never talkes to me when we're together. She rarely talkes to me unless we're having sex. I try to ask her questions and get her to open up but I'll I get is short answers and than awkward silence. She just plays with her hair and stares into space if we're out eating. If we're at her place and not playing she just watches her TV show or plays her switch. I got upset last time we were together because she wouldn't talk to me after sex and just wanted to play her switch. I left without saying goodbye or kissing her goodnight. I want to connect with her and get to know her better. All it seems like we do is just have sex. I've done that before and I want something more serious. She said she did as well but she doesn't want to open up to me. It's making me really sad and frustrated. I'm shy as well and not good and talking to people but I feel like we should able to talk together openly by now.

I'm not sure of there is something I'm missing that's why I wanted some advice from other Littles to see how to get her to open up more. I can't continue a relationship like this much longer. A few other things is I collared her last month but she won't wear her kitty day collar anymore. She told me once was because she doesn't want her mom to see it but it's just a kitty set with a bell. Her mom would just think it's because she likes cats. Another is she says that she doesn't want to ruin it but I got her a durable one in silver with rhodium plating. She won't even wear it when I come over and I told her I want her to wear it at all times other than in the shower. I feel like maybe I should take it back because she wasn't ready.

The final main thing is communication over text when we're not together. She lives a little under two hours aways so we only see each other 3-4 times a month. I would like to talk to her more over text. She used to be great and texting me at first but now I'm lucky to get 8 responses from her a day. They're very spread out as well. I'm always on my phone so I usually respond immediately but even if I do she won't get back me me for awhile. It's getting very frustrating.

I tell her in person we need to talk and say it's important but she won't pit down her games or stop watching TV. She tells me she's listening and won't put her thing down to talk to.me seriously. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like she doesn't care about my feelings and how I feel. I need my little to talk to and I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall.