This fetish is shaped by the Indian practice of Sati; an obsolete Hindu practice of widows burning themselves alive—willing or unwilling—on the funeral pyres of their husbands, and female genital mutilation by muslims and christian, mostly in Africa.
However, my fetish is much more public, humiliating and degrading. Imagine a culture where once your husband passes away, you are stripped naked in front of his funeral pyre, in front of all the guest on your marital bed, which the brought out to the cremation grounds. Your are made to be on all 4s like a slut in heat facing your husbands pyre. All your toys on display on your bed, to show the world that you do get pleasure from sex, since your man cant speak anymore.
Both you are your man are fully naked. The matriarch of your parental family goes and strokes your man's penis to awaken it, she licks and sucks on it but no reaction because he is dead. Then the patriarch of your man's family comes to you and feels you out, kisses you, fondles your udders, spanks your ass, fingers and licks your pussy. If you get wet and aroused, he takes out his cock and sticks it in your pussy. Everybody watches how easily in slid in, and then he pulls it out and shows your wetness on cock to everybody.
This is a test, to establish you still need a man even though your man is dead. The community through ages decided they can't have a widow amongst themselves who still gets aroused, and needs a man. It leads to social issues, cheating, breakdown of fabric of society.
So, as its tradition, they pluck your pubic hair one by one until your bald pussy is fully visible.The plucking is done by the women folk of your husband's family as a humiliation for you still getting aroused after your man passes, to remind you of your marriage vows, in which you claimed that you only love your husband. The act of having your mother in law, sisters in laws, nieces in law on your marital bed near the pleasure and womanhood center is a payback for taking their son, brother, and uncle away from them in marriage, and then betraying that marriage.
When you are plucked bald, the priest comes over with the head of the community and his wife. The couple gets on the bed and grabs an ass cheek each, and pull them apart to have your pussy hole showing. The large void of your cunt is visible to everyone, and your clit's hood it stroked by the priest to make your clit erect. He does this but denies you release.
Then the priest exclaims, "look at this widow slut, writhing for release while her husband lays dead in front of her. She would enjoy a conquering army fucking her while our civilization burns. We need to to control her sexually, we need to mutilated her clit, her woman hood. " Then he pulls back her hood and have her clit exposed. He takes a feather n gentle tickles it, while everyone line up to pay their final respect to your man, and on their way back to their chairs, they pass by you on your marital bed on all 4s, ass cheeks pulled aside by the leader and his wife each, to signify their role as protectors of society and its honor against a widow who can be aroused in front of her dead husband. The attendees spit on in the void of your pussy.
Then, your husband's pyre is lit, and a surgical knife is placed in it. Once hot enough, the youngest bride in attendance, comes over and slits your clit off which erect from the priest tickling it with a feather. This is supposed to be a lesson for the youngest bride of what is expected of her as a woman living in this city state.
Your mutilated clit is then shown to you to degrade you, and then thrown in the fire. You watch his body burn in that position for hours knowing you wont feel the pleasure he gave you from any other man. You are now a widow. When conquering armies arrive at the gates, you are sent out
appease them. That's your duty.