One of the best aspects of Reddit is the ability to form and engage in community. Sometimes it's not the best it could be, but the moments that are opportunities to make it something it could be cannot be missed. To that end, I had the pleasure of interviewing u/mermaidmar. Hopefully this gives you some fun, helpful and maybe even surprising insight into her as a real person, not just a Redditor. Enjoy! --Veronica

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What are one or two things that you’d love for Redditors to know about you?

I really love being here. I’ve got what I feel is a pretty great “normal” everyday life so getting to have this spicy side of giving and receiving attention is next level for me. It’s really so much fun and I appreciate each and every upvote and Interaction 🥰

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Do you have any hobbies or escapes that you couldn’t live without?

My trash romance novels, My garden, my kayak and my alien themed closet (this is where I keep all my toys and trinkets 😇)

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Red or white wine? Have a personal favorite?

Red. But generally tequila is my go-to

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How long have you been on Reddit? How long have you been posting content of yourself?

I’ve been on Reddit for over 10 years on this account I think! I haven’t been doing spicy content that long though. About a year or so with this fun adventure 😍 before I was really into the gift exchange and finding international friends.

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What were some of the factors that prompted you to make and share your images?

I love attention and just recently learned to love my body. I’m enjoying sharing that and my husband has enjoyed watching me take these fun photos 😇

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How would you describe your aesthetic and style?

I try to be as smooth and sexy as possible but I’m cheesy and my smile always gives me away 😅 I love feeling good and whether that’s a dramatic style or a fun and cute style it depends on how I feel at the moment.

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How or what do you do to help yourself not just look sexy, but also truly feel sexy?

I drink so much water I don’t have time to complain and think about my stomach or the worlds problems 🤣 but in all seriousness, I always try and make sure my soul and spirit are right. Whatever that means in the moment.

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Do you have any advice for newer accounts that are new to posting their content?

Do the best you can to have FUN with it. If you’re not doing this for income, then just take a breath, enjoy the great community, find your favorite part about yourself and display it. Take some photos and make the process a whole experience! I light candles, put on some booty shaking music and take pics! Then I find ones I like and share what I want or not. Don’t compare, don’t get jelly, don’t fall for scams, include your partner (if that’s your thing) and just enjoy it. Then you can decide how much you want to post, interact and find your “thing”. Oh, and get a ring light! Look at me giving advice like I’m a pro, I’m sure others have great insight here who have been doing this longer 😂

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What is your favorite brand of lingerie to wear? Do you have any favorite styles or pieces?

I am very spoiled and lucky that my husband has bought most my lingerie for me and even some Reddit friends 🥰 I find I love all lingerie and rarely say no to trying any pieces 😅

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Lingerie can be impractical and expensive, so what is your motivation to wear it?

I feel empowered and the center of attention 😏

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Do you have any personal kinks or fetishes that you’d be comfortable confessing?

Think my praise kink has come through pretty strongly at this point 😂 BDSM intrigues me in general and I love appreciating women’s bodies. Forearms, hands and middle to later aged men are also recent additions to my fetishes 🤭

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What are one or two things about a person that are guaranteed to turn you on?

Confidence, strength, dominance…goodness there’s a lot actually! Humor, smile, stability, sureness…cowboys, uniforms, guitars, bikes 😅

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What do you think about the idea that porn is free everywhere, so why would anyone pay for it?

Im not sure I have an opinion on that. I can share though that I like that Im in communities where I know everyone is here bc they consent, enjoy and seek it out (you know I hope and believe so anyway). How do you find time to make content?

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What are some of your biggest obstacles?

I’ve got a normal busy everyday life but find time for myself daily 😇 Do you have any special tricks or processes for making content? I do it when I’m feeling it and I don’t do it when I’m not.

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If you had an unlimited budget for content creation, what would be the first three things you’d buy?

Turn my backyard into a mini enclosed sex resort 🤣

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What’s one question you wished I asked but didn’t, and what would your answer to it be?

What’s been your biggest surprise since joining this “lifestyle” I guess you could call it? Tributes 😳 I had no idea what that meant until receiving a photo of one of my posted pics with cum over it. I was shooketh….then wildly turned on 🤣 it was quite the learning curve 🤭