Has anyone ever revealed their intrusive thoughts to their LO and explored it? I revealed my desire and fantasy to my Lo over three years ago and we have had a very connected but bizarre friendship. Bizarre because I never have revealed the extent of my interest and the different strategies I have to stay relevant in his life. He knows I like him but he might not know that I think of him everyday morning and night and throughout the entire day. And he pulls away sometimes, so it’s not a standard friendship to say the least. In a standard adult friendship, I would’ve moved on long ago, noticing that he goes quiet and only paces the friendship at his level of need. I’m just curious, what would happen if he really knew? Sometimes I think he is limerent too, I know he has OCD and he thinks about me, he has told me that much. We’re platonic all the way, so I’m not trying to sexually win him. I just wonder… I’m sure most people would be so weirded out unless it was mutual.