Hello! A few days ago I ended up matching with a non-binary cutie on Tinder and we hit it off. We've been pretty explicit in our intentions in hooking up this weekend, and both of us are looking forward to it! However, I've only ever had sex with women before, and due to that my dirty talking has become pretty gendered- more often than not its bits of praise like "thattagirl", or "what a good girl you are".

Obviously this is a pretty minor issue since I could easily just cut around gendered dirty talking like that and lean harder on some other stuff, but I first wanted to ask and see if anyone knows some fun, non-binary dirty pet names I could use instead? Ideally ones that could fall more into the "praise" category rather than the "degradation" category (I know they're ok with degradation already but I enjoy mixing and matching!).