I think I’m bi or pan, it took a long time to accept that, and I’m happier being bi/pan than I was straight. I used to think I wasn’t really bi because I didn’t find men attractive the same way I find women and didn’t know if I could actually date a man. Now, I admit that I find some men attractive, so maybe it’s just that I have a specific type. Online dating is even more confusing because how can I tell if I like a person from a few pics and a short bio? Maybe it’s because I’m more on the pan side and my attraction isn’t really gender based, more personality of the person based. I think maybe I’d be more inclined to accept a date from another man in person. Idk, I’m confused, but I’ll take confused over depressed.