I’m a 24 year old bi dude who goes by he/him pronouns. I’ve struggled with self-esteem issues regarding my own masculinity and not feeling masculine enough but most people seem to perceive me as masculine and I’m okay with it.

That being said, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve put more thought into my perception of my own gender. I don’t experience dysphoria or anything, but I don’t consider the man label to be super crucial to my overall identity.

Let’s say I woke up in a parallel universe where I was AFAB and raised as a girl, but my brain from the “regular” dimension was in that body. I don’t think I’d experience any dysphoria. I think I’d be totally cool with being a woman, but I’m comfortable enough being a man to the point where transitioning doesn’t feel remotely necessary.

Is there a name for this? Am I gender neutral, genderqueer? Should I consider going by he/they?