Hello all. I don't really use reddit or post ever so bare with me please. I am a woman married to a bisexual man. I've known he was bisexual from the get go so that's not the issue. But I just found out he's been talking to other men. He says he gets these urges that he just can't control. So now we're in the spot of what to do. There's infidelity (he says nothing physical has happened), the fact that he didn't tell me how he's been feeling even though I've never made him feel bad for being true to himself, and where to go from here. I am a monogamous person and I don't know how I feel about him having other interactions, or bringing someone into ours. I know people do it all the time, but has anyone been in mine or his situations and been able to make it work? I do love him, and he says he loves me and wants to be with me. I just feel broken right now and I don't know what to believe. Like do I believe that it's just urges and he can get a quick fix every now and then and we'll be fine? Will it turn into more? Am I just setting myself up for more heartache?