My story — I’m a hereto, married, mother of six. I always thought I was “just” an ally and a human rights activist. I love everyone. Now, I am questioning myself because there are many other possibilities that are now spoken of (that never were when I was younger). Things are not just cut and dry. I keep thinking I may possibly be a pansexual person or something that isn’t only one specific way. I am very comfortable in my skin and I always have been. However, I am one to point out a gorgeous girl if I see one and it’s never “bothered me” one bit. Do you understand what I’m talking about? Labels labels labels. I get tired of them. But, same difference - I don’t know if I’m “labeling myself” correctly as “just” an ally. Can I be an ally who loves all? Do I need to see any color? Any gender? Anything at all? I don’t. I see people as people. It doesn’t matter to me. Help! Oh and I’ve always been so much more comfortable in the lgbtq groups because I don’t feel like I need to hide anything about myself here. I proudly wear my rainbows etc. Gonna march in Pride this year.

Just help me get my head on straight. I need opinions.