I don't know if this is the right place to post this, though the subject matter in this subreddit is relevant.

I'm looking to assemble a local sex positive community, one where the folks are open minded, supportive, kind, considerate, responsible and maybe a little kinky lol. I'm not interested in too much formalities, organization, address, etc., just a group of people who like sex and realize it's something that's really fun to do with others and a good way to connect with others. All kinds of orientations and gender identities would be welcome, and obviously at least tolerated and supported by all. I guess the main goal is to know a group of people you can choose from to have sex with. Let's say my Friday plans fell through. I could call one or more people I know from the "group" who have a similar philosophy towards sex to see if they're willing and able to meet. If there's enough time beforehand there could be orgies arranged.

But I would also want this to be a kind of support network. Sexual problems could be discussed and resolved. Or maybe someone isn't looking for advice but a shoulder to cry on. I would like to see genuine care for each other.

But the support wouldn't have to be limited to sexual matters. It could apply to everything. Maybe someone needs investment advice. Maybe there's a health issue. It would be interesting to see how this would evolve. The possibilities are endless.

Also, the purpose of socializing wouldn't necessarily have to have sexual activity as a goal. There could be nonsexual socializing at a bar for instance, or a play. I'm not saying the whole group has to participate. But I would like to see these opportunities available. Besides, good sex involves establishing a relationship outside the bedroom too. A well rounded relationship benefits all aspects of the relationship.

I realize there are probably already groups like this, but they tend to revolve around couples (and single females). I don't see a problem people joining in as a couple, but that leaves little room for singles especially males. (I admit my motives as a single male, on top of that one with issues of sexuality, are selfish but far from the only motivation for this.) I want this to be welcoming for anyone who needs it and is willing to contribute. To me this isn't a formal organization. It's more of a movement. I guess there could be something like a website or secret Facebook group set up to try to keep the communication in one place. But the point is to have a loose connection of like minded people who come and go as wanted and needed. Some kind of sexual and hedonistic utopia.

I might go back to this to modify as my idea of this gets clearer or evolves, or I might add replies to it. I invite everyone to give their opinion on this. Let's see where this goes!