i recently got into a relationship (one-two months ago). i’ve been questioning my sexuality for years now, but i always just assumed i was bi. until i got into this relationship where he’s taking things seriously, and i realized that i can’t be serious with a guy.

he’s so happy in this relationship, and he’s always saying that if i turn out to “not be ready for a relationship”, he’s be devastated. but i’ll actually never be ready for a relationship with a male... how do i tell him that i’m a lesbian?

not only that, but my parents are so happy that i’m in a relationship. they thought i was a lesbian, so when i brought a boy home, they were excited. how do i tell them i broke up with bf without them getting suspicious? i’m not ready to come out to them.